Descriere - Why Do We Really Want a Baby?

The essential book for anyone at the crossroads of parenthood - clear, compassionate, and courageously honest. - This is not a parenting manual. It’s an invitation to a single, honest moment before any life-changing decision: the moment you allow yourself to ask, without shame or pretense - Why do I really want a child?

Inside is a safe space to examine the deepest motives behind the desire to have a baby - where longing intertwines with fear, old wounds, unmet needs, and inherited ideals. The book asks uncomfortable questions, opens pathways for healing conversations, and creates room for deliberate choice - not impulsive, pressured, or reparative decisions.

For the woman who feels guilty for lacking an immediate maternal instinct; for the man uncertain whether his wish comes from love or a need for validation; for couples hoping a child will save a relationship; for those who choose not to have children and fear judgment; and for parents who want to understand, heal, or transform their bond with their child - this is a reflective, compassionate guide to knowing yourself more deeply.

Becoming a parent is more than giving life. It’s accompanying it. And that journey begins with one essential question: Why do I really want a child?

About the author

Cristina Nica

Cristina Nica is a systemic psychotherapist for children, couples, and families, and the creator of therapeutic tools that fuse introspection with play, feeling with clarity, and courage with tenderness.

Calm and nonjudgmental, she opens spaces for deep reflection where readers feel seen, heard, and gently challenged. Her games, rituals, and therapeutic cards have become trusted aids for thousands of families, parents, educators, and children - helping with difficult conversations, emotional regulation, and building more authentic relationships with self and others.

A firm believer that a single honest question can start the healing process, Cristina’s resources are accessible to the general reader yet prized by clinicians, especially those beginning their practice, for their creativity and clarity.

She writes with the clear-eyed compassion of a therapist acquainted with suffering and the warmth of someone who trusts in joy, authenticity, and the power of sincere inquiry. This book continues that work - an invitation to emotional responsibility, maturity, and conscious love.